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How the “Favourites" Group Dynamic affects Fellow Dancers. - Blog 28

 I get so frustrated to see how choreographers give special treatment to people they personally know. You can see it in small things like giving them solos, not correcting them during warm ups, or just being extra soft with them. But the moment it comes to other dancers in the class the behaviour changes completely. This favouritism is honestly exhausting to watch. Even if someone with very average dancing walks into class, the fact that they are familiar with the choreographer is enough for them to get a solo. Meanwhile a dancer with actual skill, musicality and effort might not even be considered because they are not part of the favourites circle. It feels so unfair because class is supposed to be a safe place for growth. But when you see solos being handed out on the basis of proximity and not performance, it hits your confidence in ways you do not expect. You start questioning your own improvement. You wonder if your work will ever be recognised or if it does not matter becaus...
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Why Choreography Feels Harder When the Camera Comes Out - Blog 27

Besides giving a good resolution in videos, the camera can also actively trigger the well known performance pressure, among dancers.  I have seen this happen with me too, a lot of times. Without the camera, I remember everything, with turns and textures with proper expressions. But the moment the camera comes out, I suddenly have so many things to take care of, other than my dance. Starting from doubts like "hope I am not looking too fat on camera", "am I in the middle of the frame" to "I hope I looked at the camera too while dancing, not just the mirror"; thousands of thoughts keep disrupting my brain. As a result, it becomes very normal to forget the choreography.  The pressure of perfection usually instigates this fear.  What further adds in to this fear is seeing how well other seasoned dancers are with the camera. They treat the camera like their buddy and for them it is their normal. And seeing them do so well on camera but knowing both me and those ...
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Why We Can’t Stop Practising: The Hidden High Dancers Get From Repetition - Blog 26

 There is a strange kind of rush that comes with repetition, the reason we cannot stop practising a choreography even when every muscle is tired and the mirror is smudged with sweat. At first it is simple joy, the quiet proof that you can do what you admired someone else doing. You hit a sequence cleanly for the first time and your chest lifts. That small victory releases a kind of energy that feels addictive, a mix of relief and pride that you want to repeat until it becomes part of you. Then repetition builds muscle memory, and muscle memory builds confidence, and confidence creates a loop where you practice to chase the feeling of being unshakable. That loop is powerful because every repetition feels like a small upgrade of the self you are trying to become. It is not only about perfecting steps. It is about convincing yourself that you belong in that level of movement, that you can belong on stage, that you can make the room catch its breath with one clean hit. That belief keep...
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The Thin Line Between Being Inspired and Feeling Intimidated in Class - Blog 25

 I have seen how in a dance class some students freeze the moment they forget a part of the choreography or miss a beat. They step off the stage, suddenly shy and unsure, as if the entire room is watching their mistake instead of the dance. The choreographer usually pulls them back instantly, encouraging them to continue, but you can still see that hesitation in their body. That moment shows how quickly inspiration can turn into intimidation. What starts as excitement to learn becomes pressure, and when the pressure builds, dancers forget to have fun with the choreography. Their fear overshadows their intention, and the joy they walked in with gets replaced by worry. Then there is the other category of dancers who walk into class with too much pride. They behave like they are the best in the room and that no one else matches their level. They stand close to the choreographer, crack unnecessary jokes, act overly familiar and try to be the center of attention. Even if they have a go...
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The Group Project Feel of Trying to Match Energy With People You Just Met in Class - Blog 24

 There is a very specific feeling that comes with walking into a dance class full of people you have never met before. Everyone looks confident, everyone looks talented, and suddenly you feel like you have stepped into a group project with strangers who already know exactly what they are doing. It can get competitive without anyone even trying, because the room is filled with dancers who are seasoned in their own ways. In moments like that, matching their energy feels almost like trying to find your place in a team you did not choose. But that is also where the real magic of dance shows up, because the most important skill a dancer can carry is not perfection, but humbleness and a willingness to absorb everything around them like a sponge. I have seen how choreographers deliberately break that initial awkwardness by putting everyone in smaller groups, forming circles or lines where you suddenly have to dance facing strangers. It is uncomfortable at first, but that is exactly the m...
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Why Networking Matters More Than ‘Being the Best’ in the Dance Industry- Blog 23

 In the dance industry, people often assume that the ones choreographing for celebrities or performing at the biggest concerts are the dancers with the highest number of followers. But when you actually look at how the industry works, you realise that the dancers getting the major opportunities are not always the most viral or the most visible online. They are often the ones who reached out at the right moment, met the right mentors, connected with the right circles and stayed on the radar of people who could open doors for them. It is surprising to see how many respected choreographers have a very average social media presence. And yet, they are the ones getting booked for massive shows because someone trusted their work, someone remembered their attitude in class, someone recommended them at the right time. That is when you understand that networking quietly shapes a dancer’s entire journey. There are moments in a dancer’s career where one person can completely shift the path fo...
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Why Watching Yourself in Dance Videos Can Feel Like Self-Torture - Blog 22

 There is something strangely painful about watching yourself in a dance video. It feels embarrassing in a way that is hard to explain. The moment the video starts, your confidence suddenly shrinks. You stop seeing the parts where you were actually enjoying the choreography and start focusing only on the mistakes. Your posture looks weird, your timing feels off, your energy suddenly looks lower than what you remember. It feels like the camera exposes a version of you that you did not think existed, and that is where the discomfort begins. In a city like Mumbai, the pressure feels even more intense. Every showcase and every class has dancers who are insanely good. You walk into a studio and instantly feel the competitive energy. Everyone is sharp, everyone is skilled, everyone has presence. Naturally, when you watch your own video, you end up comparing yourself to the room. You start thinking everyone else looks effortless while you look like you are trying too hard. Even if you kn...
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