How the “Favourites" Group Dynamic affects Fellow Dancers. - Blog 28
I get so frustrated to see how choreographers give special treatment to people they personally know. You can see it in small things like giving them solos, not correcting them during warm ups, or just being extra soft with them. But the moment it comes to other dancers in the class the behaviour changes completely. This favouritism is honestly exhausting to watch. Even if someone with very average dancing walks into class, the fact that they are familiar with the choreographer is enough for them to get a solo. Meanwhile a dancer with actual skill, musicality and effort might not even be considered because they are not part of the favourites circle. It feels so unfair because class is supposed to be a safe place for growth. But when you see solos being handed out on the basis of proximity and not performance, it hits your confidence in ways you do not expect. You start questioning your own improvement. You wonder if your work will ever be recognised or if it does not matter becaus...